The “ MY-LIFE ” Learning Lesson , A “ LESSON ” For “ Me ”, “ You ” , And “ Everybody ”.

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The “ MY-LIFE ” Learning Lesson , A “ LESSON ” For “ Me ”, “ You ” , And “ Everybody ”. 

That is my life, often we hear. Since it is my life, I have all the right to lead the way as I wish to lead the same. Do NOT interfiere in my life and in my personal matter is what we keep on hearing always. FINE. That could be fine and still better fine.

What is the LESSON that we derive out of these PHENOMENALIES . Well, simple dissect the word and you get the TWO out of the same, the PHENOMENA and the LIES and these two combined makes it PHENOMENALIES .

We never believe that everything that we believe of ourself while uttering those wrods that I have stated above are nothing but the WRONG assumption of the FALLACY of the LIFE that we lead and that is what is all about the LIE that we utter with PRIDE about the life.

What is then the life. We generally are wrong to believe that we know what is the life.OK, if we are wrong them the question is CAN WE LEARN ABOUT LIFE. No is the answer as there is NO book available which writes and tells us all about the LIFE as life is an individual matter and every life is different from the other one’s in terms of life.

Still some individual who had understood the life and could describe and define that in a manner and in a way have wriiten some good points and notes about life and some own personal experience that could be coupled to it could be used to either explain or exaggerate all about life.

Some of the salient features are as follow-:

I explain all about the same by using the word PRINCIPLES of life::

 1 ) . 80/20 rule. Most of the people in your life are useless. Less is more

 

This is the most important and a salient feature and the striking point to note and learn and learn that fast.

It is a general fact that out of the 10 we meet in our life, nine of them are useless and are no use to us. They would stick to us if they find that we are useful to them.One that need is over they are of no use to us. THIS IS THE TRUTH OF THE LIFE AND HIS IS WHAT LIFE GIVES US .

Mind you- CHOOSE YOUR “ FRIENDS ” AND “ COMPANION ” VERY CAREFULLY.

 

2). Don't put all your eggs in one basket.  

Never depend on a single income.  Either have a second income through your wife serving or working in some other organization and NEVER in the same organization where you work.

Incase if you find that your wife is not good enough to work outside the house, then you ought to make investments to create a second source. In today’s world ONE INCOME WILL LEAD YOU TO YOUR GRAVE VERY SOON. 

3     ) . Don't make any decisions late at night. 

The night are meant for REST, LEISURE and enjoyment , be it of any kind or of any type. NEVER MAKE ANY DECISION AT NIGHT, ESPECIALLY THE LATE NIGHT.  

.The BEST moment to think and take a decision is the very EARLY morning in the SMOOTH, COOL BREEZE especially at the time when you have the morning walk. Remenber, in the morning when you go out for a walk, walk that walk for exercising so that your blood runs fast and the brain works in it’s best of the capacity.  Actually when you walk fast the brain also works at it’s best because it gets the FRESH oxygen .That is the moment that you wuld be able to take a suitable decision. Always make it a point to walk alon rather than in the company of many or some. That will help yopu to concentrate far better for taking a suitable decision.

 The night is the most vulnerable and sensitive time for people, it is easy to irrationally do something that you will regret the next morning.

Lower your expectations. 

Never expect too much of your life though you ought to work very hard to  get the BEST of your LIFE. Life does not gives you all that you want but it serves you with what BEST you DESERVE. 

That is the BEAUTY of life.

Don't expect too much from your close lovers, friends, or even loved ones; the greater the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

4 ) . Never stop making money

You ought to know the ART of making money. Remember MONEY THAT IS MADE CROOKEDLY ARE LOST “ WICKEDLY ” . Earn money the appropriate and the right way  and start saving money now. Save as early as possible and let that money grow.

Learn what is the QUANTUM of the money that is required by you to develop yourself and earn ONLY THAT amount of money so that you develop yourself which also includes you and your family. LEAVE THE REST  and give yourself your time for leisure and happy trip making, as more and more and more acquaintance with the money earning may make you BED-RIDDEN and sick for the rest of your life and no sooner that happens, YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS WILL LEAVE YOU HIGH AND DRY.

5     ) . No one wants you to be yourself.

No one in this earth, wants you to be yourself by all the means to be yourself. They will and NOBODY will ever like if you are yourself. They want you to be the version of yourself that they like. If you are alike them to what they want you to be you would be liked by them till the moment you serve their purpose.No sooner you fail doing that they will take  away your eye from you.That is the TRUTH of LIFE .

6     ). Everything has a price.

Everybody here in this earth has it’s own price.In other words everybody here in this earth has his own value and that value holds. You will have to value yourself as equal to the valus that the other has and only then you will be able to move along with him which will help the interest on the mutually terms and mutually.

The price, however, isn't always money. -Ahmed Mostafa.

 

7     ) . Don't date the average. 

Never pick the one’s who are below you and those who are as simple and as bad as you.

Average and poor quality will NEVER help you to grow with them. Also be very careful NOT to go along with the EXTREME SUPERIOR one’s  as you would  be termed and considered as very useless as compared to them . They would NOT bother for you for what you are. Always choose those who are as equal to you but have a very vast and gainful expeience as compared with you.Only those can and their experience can help you to become a MASTER of ONE and JACK of many.

Be very picky with whom you give your energy. To reserve your time, intensity, and spirit exclusively to those who reflect sincerity.

8     ) . You can’t please everyone. 

Remember DO NOT TRY TO PLEASE ANYBODY OR EVERYBODY. It cannot be such that you wish to please that ONE will be pleased by you and will fall for you. Nobody falls for you unless and until they find that they can get something out of you.

You don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. In other words everybody that you wish to please will not be appreciative to you . People have GOOD words for you only if they think that you have SERVED them and their ulterior motives well and fine and upto their likings.

9). Your health is your most valuable asset . 

 

Nothing but a GOOD health is the only asset that you possess and that you have.  If you have a good and a sound health you have a sound mind and a sound body and this WALTH of your’s can make you the KING of everything that you survey. It is of NO-USE to possess the WEATH that the entire EARTH would have with a sound health. If you do not possess a sound health that can make you to work like a bee your WEALTH slowly will LEAVE you as the WEALTH needs a SOUND-HEALTH as it’s “ sleeping partner ”  to be always with you.

Mind you if you possess a sound health, always appreciate, nurture, and protect it .

10). There’s no shame in not knowing

There is no SIN if you do not know anything. There is no sin if you are IGNORANT. For all you need is the IGNORANCE BUT A LITTLE BIT OF SELF CONFIDENCE AND IF YOU HAVE IT YOU ARE THE EMPEROR OF THIS WORLD .  

No one has it all figured out and nobody has all the answers. Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection.

Perfection is LIFE LONG accumulation of experience to execute a thing without any mistake and that requires a lot of TOIL and a LOT of PAINFIL hard work and it’s effect that is accumulated in your mind which is full of OAINSand PAINS  but which ius full of HAPPINESS when you give it to the others which makes their job so beautiful to look at and your efficiency to part away with it though to acquire it you had so many a pains to garner it.

10). Love is more than a feeling; it’s a choice. 

Love for that matter is something which cannot be explained or describe it any manner. A beautiful lady can fall in love with a BLIND, the most FAIRER can fall in love with a DARK-PITC-BEING and the FIRE can fall in LOVE with the WATER. It is practically very hard to figure out  properly as to what the love is all about and how it can be decribed. Howver to be the most LOVABLE character we have to let go anfd leave everything that is dear to us or everything that maybe our most potent weapon.

For some their ANGER is the BEST quality that they possess and the best of the ornament that they have. To cite an example  Lord Parshuram’s TEMPER was the BEST ASSET that he possessed. But to the entire HEAVEN and the EARTH that was the WORST that he possessed.

We have to choose to let annoyances pass, to forgive, to be kind, to respect, to support, to be faithful. This is ONLY choice left to be the BEST of the LOVER and the BEST that the LOVE can come from .

The MUTE question is WHO ARE SUCCESFUL IN THEIR LIFE.

The answer is those who have and who were - :

" WHO SAW THE LIFE AT THE BACKYARD WHERE THEY HAD LEFT THE PAST AND WHO PICKED THE THREADS FROM THERE TO LOOK FORWARS AND MAKE IT HAPPEN AND COUNT WITHOUT MIXING THE BAD OF THE PAST WITH THE GOOD THAT AWAITED THEM FOR THEIR FUTURE" .

Well That is it .

 Regards and Thanks

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Mr Shyamal Bhattacharjee, the author was born at West Chirimiri Colliery at District Surguja, Chattisgarh on July 6th 1959 He received his early education at Carmel Convent School Bishrampur and later at Christ Church Boys' Higher Secondary School at Jabalpur. He later joined Hislop College at Nagpur and completed his graduation in Science and he also added a degree in    B A thereafter. He joined the HITAVADA, a leading dailies of Central India at Nagpur as a      Sub-Editor ( Sports ) but gave up to complete his MBA in 1984 He thereafter added a Diploma In Export Management. He has authored THREE books namely Notable Quotes and Noble Thought published by Pustak Mahal in 2001 Indian Cricket : Faces That Changed It  published by Manas Publications in 2009 and Essential Of Office Management published by NBCA, Kolkatta  in 2012. He has a experience of about 35 years in Marketing

 

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