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What are some of the "SIX "  core habits of mentally strong people? 

STRONG PEOPLE-

We always  talk about STRONG and VERY STRONG people .  No sooner that we look upon a person with a LOT of PURSE and DIME in it, with all the modern sophisticated and luxuried added to his arms and repertoire, we  start feeling and calling him as a STRONG person and a very STRONG man thinking that his STRONG and HARD work has made him what that he appears to be.be. However is a PERSON very STRONG if he moves in a MERCEDES BENZ or a BMW and if he loaded with cash or money that he is  unable to count and keep an accuracy of the amount of money that he possesses .

It is said that -:   

IF YOU COUNT YOUR MONEY THAT EASILY YOU AREN’T A  “ RICH ” MAN OR A PERSON  Is the STRONGEST attribute or the QUALITY of a person totally depends upon the cash at the bank or the amenities and the luxuries that he possesses. Is that the yardstick to measure HOW STRONG IS HE ?. 

Well the definition maybe either YES or NO but then the quality if implied upon it will give the anwer as “ NO ”   

What makes a STRONG man and how is he determined as a very STRONG person. What are the attributes that makes him a strong person.Well these are some of the answers. 

I would like to pin and point these attributes which is totally based on my personal experience about those STRONG person with whom I have had the experience to share most of my time while interactiong or sharing my time with them and the qualities are as ascribed below-:    

A STRONG person is - ::

 1.     They are resilient.

The FIRST and the FOREMOST quality of a strong person is he is resilent . They keep on bearing and taking it on themselves  when they face a failure or a disaster and they keep the success to them without GLOATING or BLOWING their own trumpet about them. They are absolutely within them whenever they face either a failure or any success . They DO NOT react in any way whatever be their success or failure be, and they DO NOT put the blame on the others while they face disaster or failures repeatedly. They have a STRONG – CONFIDENCE in themselves with the state of their mind saying them that THEY-WILL-BOUNCE-BACK like a ball which bounces and repeatedly bounced like anything.   


 2 ) . . Failures Does Not Means The End Of The World For Them

  Failure is just a moment of wrong doing for a wrong reading of the moment about a thing on which you have wrongly judged for yourself about the same and no sooner that you get it right you put the things back into the place. Mentally strong people realize that a failure isn’t the end of the world, and they bounce back with grace and a good attitude intact.


For the mentally strong people, failures is a momentary bad time coupled with a wrong decision to do an act worongly which could be very soon recoorected to put the entire act in a correct and in an appropriate place .     

 

3     ) . They have good coping mechanisms    

 Mechanism in a simple parlance is  connecting your body and the mind to do anything which is worth doing and taking the best possible returns out of the same. If the principles applied to the act is CORRECT the end result will be positive and very correct and that is that  which we call is correct mechanism.


 What if the mechanism is wrong. Will that be a strong result that one would really  be happy with it. NO- and that ois the final answer. In other words if the act to be performed is wrong then the enite mechanism is wrong and the end result are wrong. This is not the symptom of the strong person. A strong person NEVER compromises with the wrongs at all  .


Basically, this means they, ie , the STRONG ,  have healthy strategies for when they’re upset. If you’re worried about layoffs, do you turn to alcohol, snap at your spouse, let your worries fester until they’re blown out of proportion…or do you go for a run, write in a journal, or meditate


4     ) . They don’t believe everything they think.    

Most of us are ruled by our thoughts. Most of the time we think that whatever we think is always correct but this is NEVER the case correct everytime and all the time. Sometimes we as a human personalities are wrong yet we think that we are correct .    


 Mentally strong people know that sometimes our brains lie to us. Just because you think, “ He or SHE   is prettier and smarter and friendlier than me and I’m going to die alone in a hole somewhere ”….doesn’t mean you have to accept it as true.


Strong people always after they recover from any bad times do really think that the BRAIN AT TIMES “ BELIES ”  US and that the good advises of the others are TOO USEFUL for a healthy devlopement of the body, state of the life and the mind.


 5     ). They’re supported by loving family and friends.   

It is a MERE truth and a very COMMON fact that a STRONG person is the MOST- ADORABLE element moving around and because of his very strong attitude, habits and mannerism, he is adored by each, ONE-AND-SUNDRY and is liked by the one’s and all. 





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The greatest VIRTUE of a strong person is he is  supported by all and the main support comes from his family members and then from the VERY-TRUSTED-FRIENDS that he possesses. Don’t underestimate the power of a support system.  Be very sure, YOU, “ one-and-sundry ”  that, your  Family and friends are life’s greatest joy, so if you’re lucky enough to have them, take advantage, like the Tennis player takes the advantage out of a situation when it is " DEUCE " . That is a must .  Lean on them.


6 ) . They get help when they need it.   

It may sound cliched, but honest-to-god I can’t think of anything braver than admitting you need help and seeking it out. Getting a professional’s help, even if you’re scared, is truly a hallmark of strength , and this is the GREATEST STRENGTH of the STRONG person. No sooner that he is in trouble, he gets all the GOOD or the BEST advises from the clutches of the TRUE friends  that he possesses and the family stands like a rock behind him and these two help that he receives makes him a WORTHY-WINNER for every success that he can taste and he always TASTES a FLAVOUR which again is the taste of “ VICTORY ‘’  .


Mind you the STRONGEST person who has been so successful  in the manner that I have described above has only ONE PERCENT of his ability..    It is the as we  might like to say it or call it CONGLOMERATION of the other 99% of the people around him  on whom hecould TRUST and BESTOW upon them his best of the FAITH and the QUALITY which made them so very good to deliver for him, had made him so STRONGEST and his element of the strongest constituents were the FAITH he could generate of them in him and the deliverance that he obtained in terms of 100% for him to share all his success and the share that he received out of them is what made him the STRONGEST person. 

 

This was the ATTRIBUTE of Doctor Rajendra Prasad, the FIRST President of India and also of Mr Ram Kovind the present President of India and thus they are very strong in their way which could be emulated by many across the globe .


This article is my TRIBUTE to Dr Rajendra Prasad the FIRST President of India today on his birth anniversary.

 Well That is it .

 

Regards and Thanks

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Shyamal Bhattacharjee 

Mr Shyamal Bhattacharjee, the author was born at West Chirimiri Colliery at District Surguja, Chattisgarh on July 6th 1959 He received his early education at Carmel Convent School Bishrampur and later at Christ Church Boys' Higher Secondary School at Jabalpur. He later joined Hislop College at Nagpur and completed his graduation in Science and he also added a degree in    B A thereafter. He joined the HITAVADA, a leading dailies of Central India at Nagpur as a      Sub-Editor ( Sports ) but gave up to complete his MBA in 1984 He thereafter added a Diploma In Export Management. He has authored THREE books namely Notable Quotes and Noble Thought published by Pustak Mahal in 2001 Indian Cricket : Faces That Changed It  published by Manas Publications in 2009 and Essential Of Office Management published by NBCA, Kolkatta  in 2012. He has a experience of about 35 years in Marketing




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