The " SIX " of the Basic Quality Of The " STRONGEST " Person :: The " LOVE- SET " Game Of The Strongest Person .
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What are some of the "SIX " core habits of mentally strong people?
We always talk about STRONG and VERY STRONG people . No sooner that we look upon a person with a LOT of PURSE and DIME in it, with all the modern sophisticated and luxuried added to his arms and repertoire, we start feeling and calling him as a STRONG person and a very STRONG man thinking that his STRONG and HARD work has made him what that he appears to be.be. However is a PERSON very STRONG if he moves in a MERCEDES BENZ or a BMW and if he loaded with cash or money that he is unable to count and keep an accuracy of the amount of money that he possesses .
IF YOU COUNT YOUR MONEY THAT EASILY YOU AREN’T A “ RICH ” MAN OR A PERSON Is the STRONGEST attribute or the QUALITY of a person totally depends upon the cash at the bank or the amenities and the luxuries that he possesses. Is that the yardstick to measure HOW STRONG IS HE ?.
The
FIRST and the FOREMOST quality of a strong person is he is resilent . They keep
on bearing and taking it on themselves
when they face a failure or a disaster and they keep the success to them
without GLOATING or BLOWING their own trumpet about them. They are absolutely
within them whenever they face either a failure or any success . They DO NOT
react in any way whatever be their success or failure be, and they DO NOT put
the blame on the others while they face disaster or failures repeatedly. They
have a STRONG – CONFIDENCE in themselves with the state of their mind saying
them that THEY-WILL-BOUNCE-BACK like a ball which bounces and repeatedly
bounced like anything.
Failure is just a moment of wrong doing for a wrong reading of the moment about
a thing on which you have wrongly judged for yourself about the same and no
sooner that you get it right you put the things back into the place. Mentally
strong people realize that a failure
isn’t the end of the world, and they bounce back with grace and a good
attitude intact.
For the mentally strong people, failures is a momentary bad time coupled with a wrong decision to do an act worongly which could be very soon recoorected to put the entire act in a correct and in an appropriate place .
3
) . They have good coping
mechanisms.
Basically,
this means they, ie , the STRONG , have healthy strategies for when they’re
upset. If you’re worried about layoffs,
do you turn to alcohol, snap at your spouse, let your worries fester
until they’re blown out of proportion…or do you go for a run, write in a journal, or meditate?
4 ) . They don’t believe everything they think.
Most
of us are ruled by our thoughts. Most of the time we think that whatever we
think is always correct but this is NEVER
the case correct everytime and all the time. Sometimes we as a human
personalities are wrong yet we think that we are correct .
Mentally strong people know that sometimes our
brains lie to us. Just because you think, “ He or SHE is prettier and smarter and friendlier than
me and I’m going to die alone in a hole somewhere ”….doesn’t mean you have to
accept it as true.
Strong
people always after they recover from any bad times do really think that the BRAIN AT TIMES “ BELIES ” US and
that the good advises of the others are TOO USEFUL for a healthy
devlopement of the body, state of the life and the mind.
It is a MERE truth and a very COMMON fact that a STRONG person is the MOST- ADORABLE element moving around and because of his very strong attitude, habits and mannerism, he is adored by each, ONE-AND-SUNDRY and is liked by the one’s and all.
Pic:; To The World This Is That They Are
The greatest VIRTUE of a strong person is he is supported by all and the main support comes from his family members and then from the VERY-TRUSTED-FRIENDS that he possesses. Don’t underestimate the power of a support system. Be very sure, YOU, “ one-and-sundry ” that, your Family and friends are life’s greatest joy, so if you’re lucky enough to have them, take advantage, like the Tennis player takes the advantage out of a situation when it is " DEUCE " . That is a must . Lean on them.
6 )
. They get help when they need it.
It
may sound cliched, but honest-to-god
I can’t think of anything braver than admitting you need help and seeking it
out. Getting a professional’s help, even if you’re scared, is truly a hallmark
of strength , and this is the GREATEST STRENGTH of the STRONG person. No sooner
that he is in trouble, he gets all the GOOD or the BEST advises from the
clutches of the TRUE friends that he
possesses and the family stands like a rock behind him and these two help that
he receives makes him a WORTHY-WINNER for every success that he can taste and
he always TASTES a FLAVOUR which again is the taste of “ VICTORY ‘’ .
Mind
you the STRONGEST person who has been so successful in the manner that I have described above has
only ONE PERCENT of his ability.. It is the as we might like to say it or call it CONGLOMERATION
of the other 99% of the people around him
on whom hecould TRUST and BESTOW upon them his best of the FAITH and the
QUALITY which made them so very good to deliver for him, had made him so
STRONGEST and his element of the strongest constituents were the FAITH he could
generate of them in him and the deliverance that he obtained in terms of 100%
for him to share all his success and the share that he received out of them is
what made him the STRONGEST person.
This
was the ATTRIBUTE of Doctor
Rajendra Prasad, the FIRST
President of India and also of Mr Ram Kovind the present President of India and
thus they are very strong in their way which could be emulated by many across
the globe .
This
article is my TRIBUTE to Dr Rajendra Prasad the FIRST President of India today
on his birth anniversary.
Regards and Thanks
Shyamal Bhattacharjee
Mr Shyamal Bhattacharjee, the author
was born at West Chirimiri Colliery at District Surguja,
Chattisgarh on July 6th 1959 He received his early education
at Carmel Convent School Bishrampur and later at Christ
Church Boys' Higher Secondary School at Jabalpur. He later
joined Hislop College at Nagpur and completed
his graduation in Science and he also added a degree in B
A thereafter. He joined the HITAVADA, a leading dailies of Central
India at Nagpur as a Sub-Editor
( Sports ) but gave up to complete his MBA in 1984 He
thereafter added a Diploma In Export Management. He has
authored THREE books namely Notable Quotes and Noble
Thought published by Pustak Mahal in 2001 Indian Cricket :
Faces That Changed It published by Manas Publications in 2009
and Essential Of Office Management published by NBCA, Kolkatta in
2012. He has a experience of about 35 years in Marketing
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